Subconsciously yours...

Heyy! This is just spontaneous writing based on spontaneous thought. I hope you enjoy reading and do let me know what you think!

Here’s a beautiful thought that put my life into a new perspective. We are all unique and have our own personalities but it’s far more than only ours. Our personality is a mixture of fragments of our close and loved ones. We pick up phrases, and habits from people we are close to; The way someone talks or does a particular thing. We observe these little things and consciously or subconsciously they become a part of us and our routine. So basically, we are the reflection of how we see the world and the people in it. Sometimes it’s not only from our close ones either; something that a stranger does that you seem to notice and like soon becomes a part of you.

So ultimately our personality is the reflection of the best we see in people. But hey, we have flaws too, don’t we? Now these flaws too are a reflection; a reflection of acceptance. Not everyone is perfect and we know that. The people we are close to open up about their flaws to us and we love them for who they are. Consciously or subconsciously their flaws can also be a part of our personality too. However, this doesn’t mean that only these small influences make us. Your soul is raw, the core is yours and the way your mind thinks makes you subconsciously fall into these habits.

It’s beautiful tho, isn’t it? People keep saying the world is a cruel place with a twisted fate and that being selfish will make you win. What they don’t see though is the pure side of it. I mean how could you possibly be selfish if you yourself are fragments of others? I like how we represent the ones we love and what we love about them.

Even though this is purely subconscious, it’s one of the most innocent instances I've heard of. And the best part about it remains the fact that as we grow (as a person) we are growing things we love about our closest people. Imagine caring about and loving people so much that their small things affect us. It’s these little, simple, and beautiful things that make this world a little more hopeful; makes this world seem like a better place to live in.

They say when you love yourself, only then can you love people better. I guess this might be the reason after all. When you fall in love with yourself, you fall in love with all the small things you love about everyone else, a little more than before. And how can that radiate anything but positivity? I mean come to think of it; this has to be the purest thing in the world.

xoxo

Advika<3